A Caterer’s Guide to a Seated Wedding Dinner
A served and seated dinner provides an entirely different event experience and aesthetic than a stations or buffet style reception. It can be a wonderfully intimate way to celebrate your new marriage with your closest friends and family all seated around a table, getting to know each other. As a Charleston-based catering & event company that has been serving the Lowcountry of South Carolina and welcoming the magic of celebration since 1978, we think there are a few basic things all brides and grooms should know when deciding on a served dinner.
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1. Served dinners are more expensive.
When planning a served dinner at your wedding reception, you’ll need a seat for every guest, which increases your rental costs—more tables, more linens, more centerpieces, and more glassware. To save on your floral budget, consider mixing floral centerpieces with candles or lanterns. With everyone being served at once, Charleston wedding catering companies typically require more staff for smooth dinner service, which can drive up your budget due to the need for additional chefs and servers. If you want wine service with dinner in addition to an open bar, most catering companies charge a per-bottle fee. Consider having guests visit the bar for refills or ask servers to offer refreshments when possible. Alternatively, if you prefer wine service, you could close the bar during dinner to manage bar costs.
2. Served dinners require more planning.
If you’re planning on offering multiple options, you must pre-plan and coordinate your invitations so you can have a proper entree count to provide your caterer. We typically ask for these final entree counts at least 2 weeks prior to the wedding. Additionally, it is important that your catering company know about any allergies so they can accommodate any guests that may need a special entree. During dinner catering service, we typically ask that the place cards somehow denote what entree the guest requested on the response card. If this is not done, often times people forget what they ordered and guests end up with entrees they do not want.
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3. Served dinners take time.
An average served dinner will typically take about an hour and a half, with getting guests seated prior and up and onto the dance floor after. If you’re dreaming about a wedding full of people buzzing about and hitting the dance floor all evening, know that a served dinner takes time to execute and will typically take up ⅓ of your reception.
4. Details matter.
When planning a served dinner, talk with your caterer about customizing the china, glassware and flatware you use. Mix vintage patterns to create fun décor. Incorporate a metallic charger to make a statement or mix and match water glasses to create an eclectic feel. The table settings will be a focal point so pay attention to every detail- what napkin fold do you want? How do you want the place card? Will there be a catering menu card at each setting? Does the chair match the aesthetic? When making all of these decisions, be sure all of these details coordinate with the centerpieces you have chosen. Get creative with your table-scapes and chairs and your tables are sure to catch the eye! Lastly- candles, candles, candles! Candlelight is the best way to create budget friendly ambiance at your wedding. Ask your caterer if they provide votives to sprinkle on the tables. If not, purchase a box and have your caterer place a few on each table. It will make a world of difference!
Seated wedding dinner FAQs
What is a seated wedding dinner?
A seated wedding dinner is a formal type of wedding reception where guests are seated at tables and served a meal, making it a more formal and traditional dining experience.
Should I have a buffet or seated wedding dinner?
Deciding between a seated wedding dinner or a buffet-style dinner comes down to your own personal preference. You should consider factors such as the style of your wedding, budget, and preferences of your guests. For example, seated wedding dinners offer a more formal and traditional dining experience but can be more expensive to provide. A buffet-style wedding dinner is usually much more casual and interactive, allowing for a variety of food choices which might be great for guests with intolerances or allergies, but does require more physical space to provide.
How expensive is a seated wedding dinner?
Seated wedding dinners are often more expensive to provide than buffet-style dinners as you are paying for the service and assistance of waitstaff as well as the food itself. The cost of a seated wedding dinner can vary significantly depending on the food you are serving, any accompanying beverages to be included, and the level of service you require. Depending on your options and preferences, you can expect to pay between $50-150 per guest, but it is best to speak with your wedding planner to see if they can help secure the best rates.
How do you seat people at a wedding dinner?
Seating arrangements at wedding dinners often follow a blend of tradition and personal preferences. You will often have a “head table” for the newly married couple and immediate wedding party such as the bridesmaids and groomsmen. For seated wedding dinners, you will often have a Family table, where parents and grandparents of the wedding party will be seated, and then further tables for additional wedding guests. Seating charts and table cards are often used to help guests find their allocated seats for the meal – these are particularly important if you are providing a seated wedding dinner as their allocated seat will be where their food is sent.